The Definition of Naranja: To meet one’s ideal match. someone that makes you grow. The perfect relationship. The Definition of Ajna: The third eye, which is the intuitive center between your own eyebrows.
Narajna is the wordplay and the magic name I gave to the spirit of my woman, whom with her beauty and love helped me to reach my fullest potential as a human-being on this earth. Both spiritually, mentally, and physically.
With the wisdom that all in life is a bonus, I take part in the responsibility of raising her two young boys from a previous relationship, and I faced the greatest challenge in my life which was the final level of zen mastery: The family life.
She was at the same time challenged to walk the path with me. And she wants to grow, being the true meaning of saying I love you.
She stands by me through difficult times, and I also stand by hers, helping each other to navigate through our own unchartered territories and completing our own inner souls healing.
When we are true to ourselves together,always going our own way, we see the alchemical changes physically and spiritually around us, within ourselves and in the world. In our dreams and in our lives.
Our world is reprogrammed and we enter the love dimension. To want to be in a love relationship is to want to be challenged. To say I love you, means you want to work together, finding ways of sorting out yourselves by being a mirror to each other. Letting go of your own past trauma, with love, and outward positive actions. Finding peace in the in-between world of compromise.
I found my woman and the perfect partner for me when I asked myself the basic question: Who could be good for me? This was a radical change for me, to ask myself this question pointing to my personal needs.
So, when the timing was right and we finally got together, after meeting on and off for many years, the universe literally opened up. And I observed how she glows in the dark when we connect physically, and I watch our souls flying around each other in outer space, that first magic night of our love.
And when the honeymoon days are over, I enter my last dark night of the soul, receiving a concussion, forcing me to sit in the dark for about a year. We are then challenged to always go our own ways together, remembering to be true to ourselves, not to save one another, but to only give each other exactly what we need there and then to live.
This helps us to become freer people, just shining in our own suns and transforming. The greatest gift of all, being a very important tool for my own healing and transforming, is to be given the experience to give in a love-relationship. One of the true secrets of what life is all about. Giving!
So Narajna, I thank you for being true to you, and to me and you.