This is the story of the ideal relationship, consisting of two individuals who are opposites in nature, and the perfect mirror for each other. True individuals who really love each other and respect one another, embracing the challenges of what a love relationship really is about.
This woman is a perfect match for my own inner transformation. We are somehow meant to be in this life together to grow, to heal, and to become the best versions of ourselves.
We are mysteries to each other, and this is what keeps us on our toes.
Together we are spiritual contestants in our own cosmic dance. I am heaven and she is earth, pulling me down when I get too high up in the sky with my ethereal dreaming, grounding me. And I pull her up to the sky when she is too practical in her thinking.
We both need each other to grow, and we fulfill each other and help each other to become complete individuals. We find the middle ground together, the compromise, and there, in the in-between world, we find the new world, the love-dimension.
In my fears of losing her I must strengthen my belief in myself and face the challenges and emotions of not being loved. We don’t own each other, and true love must be set free to flourish and grow. I am in a constant process of learning to love myself, and I must trust that love will find a way when we open up to the world and let all our expectations go.
All in life is a bonus. I mustn’t tie myself down with expectations placed upon her for my own wellbeing. If I do, I will prevent us both from growing as individuals. We must take responsibility in ourselves and provide for our own happiness. A happy relationship can only exist with two truly happy and free individuals.
And I must deal with my emotions of jealousy if they arise. For this is the darkest emotion of them all and a dance with the devil himself. But at the same time this is a true gift for deep inner liberation: To truly learn to love myself and not to own or be owned by anybody.
By learning to love another human being with all their faults and their dark sides, at the same time
I learn to love the world and everything as it is between heaven and earth. She is the great love of my life and my perfect mirror girl in our mirror world.
The Mirror Girl